IT'S YOU WHO ARE IN CONTROL OF YOURSELF!!!

        In life there are many instances when we feel down and thought we'll never get through things. But frankly we should never underestimate our own very precious self hence we should chin up and move on. Never dwell ourselves on issues which only make us depressed and sad.   

   

If possible we should even forgive people who have done wrong to us. This is because all the negative feelings of hatred and anger only imprison ourselves from unleashing our true potential BOTH personally and professionally.      

 In order to gain strength in hard times we need to whisper to ourselves to stay strong coz it's us who are in control of our own mindset and our frame of mind. All the best in controlling our own mind so that our outlook towards life always remain positive and later on make us feel blessed and happY…

 “Believe in yourself. If you don't have confidence in yourself, it will be difficult to succeed in anything; people don't look up to or respect a person who is incapable of exuding self-confidence. It's easy to spot a person down on their luck and lacking in self-confidence, and mastering self-belief is the first step to standing up for yourself.

• Learn how to make decisions based on your own experience of what works and what does not work. If you're always ready to take on board the thinking of others without formulating what you believe in deeply and truly, then you'll be overwhelmed by what someone else is thinking every time.

• Set your own agenda. There are a lot of rules out there about how to live, how to behave, how to get along with others, etc. (to avoid irony, hopefully you're reading this very article in the spirit of a guide, not a rulebook!) If you tried to follow everyone else's advice, you'd never have time to be you. Instead, look inside and form an agenda that suits who you are and follow your own drum beat. Rules, fads, and what's popular will change; your basic essence won't.

• Set goals. Goals give you a sense of purpose, a sense of control over your own destiny and help you to know what you want. And knowing what you want is the secret to not having other people insert their wants into your life without your acquiescence. When you achieve goals, recognize your endeavors and pat yourself on the back for believing in your ability to achieve things.

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